I’ve attended some of your workshops and they’re amazing. The Yin and Yang Way of Life is a great book. You have a yang body, male, but you have a yin soul, the anima. There’s a time to be one and there’s a time to be another one. Young men and older women are very masculine. Young women and old men are very feminine. Yin is in charge of what they don’t want. What is feminine? How is feminine responding? If somebody says I think and I want and so forth, is that the masculine that’s saying that? What does that mean? Getting to “I Do” by Dr. How does that show up in a relationship? Feminine energy is passive, patient, and vulnerable. I need a Fred Astaire and a Ginger Rogers, two Fred Astaires.
Yang energy is competitive, conquering, and controlling. If somebody wants to be respected more than they want to be cherished, does that make them more masculine or more feminine? I got news for you, if the couple likes it, who am I to guess? People who want to be equally cherished and equally respected are narcissists and they have to have zero people, codependent relationships. A real man is simply a man that knows who he is. A real man is a human being that knows whether he wants to be cherished first or respected first. I would love to know what your definition is of a real man? Thank you so much for taking the time to do this. They’ve resulted in literally thousands of marriages. She has seminars in LA that are amazing, I’ve attended a few of them. She’s the author of Getting To “I Do”, she’s been on The Oprah Show four times, as well as CNN, Bravo, The Millionaire Matchmaker. She tells it like it is, she’s sassy, she’s super smart. Whether you are single or in a relationship, you’re going to get a ton of value out of this episode and it’s going to be a lot of fun. Are you ready for some no holds barred relationship advice? You are in for a treat. Pat wraps things up by asking Stephan what he learned from her today.Stephan shares his own transformation with Pat.How has Pat’s amazing work shown up in her own relationship? She discusses how dramatically she has changed her life and shares a photo with Stephan.